This post is a message from my heart.
I feel like I made some of you mad last night in d-group... I could just see it on some of your faces.
I'm sorry if I said something to hurt your feelings. I know that often times the things that I say, even though they are in love, come out the wrong way. I tend to be somewhat brazen in brash at times. I don't like that about myself; sometimes I wish that God had made me a soft spoken person. So I sincerely apologize if anything last night was taken as offensive on my part. I didn't mean for it to be.
Everything that I said last night was out of love. I hope you girls know how much I love you!
As I said... being a Christian is not about a set of rules. If we had to meet certain standards and requirements in order to be part of God's kingdom, none of us would have a chance in _ _ _ _!!!
That's why Jesus came!
Everybody has their own convictions and set of ideals about what is appropriate or acceptable when it comes to everything from diet to dancing and all the stuff in between. There are so many places in the Bible, Old & New Testament alike, that leave all of us with questions... My friend recently wrote this in an e-mail:
"THE BIBLE IS CALLED GOD'S WORD because it is what HE SAID. And when Jesus ascended, the Holy Spirit came, and He is IN us as believers. So, if you aren't sure what the Bible says, ASK THE HOLY SPIRIT TO TELL YOU because HE WROTE IT and HE'S IN YOU." ~Lynn Sexton
There are so many areas of life (we talked about many of them last night) about which we are not given clear "directions" in the Bible. God sent Jesus to die for us, as an atonement for our sins. As Christians, when we accept that, God gives us the Holy Sprit. To me that Spirit is what we so often refer to as "the voice inside your head"... the gut feeling you get when you know you should or shouldn't do or say something.
My friend, Lynn, also told me this story:
"We have the Holy Spirit in us telling us what the Bible says. WE CANNOT BE EACH OTHER'S HOLY SPIRIT. There is a girl at our church who wears a bandana-like scarf around her neck and when we pray, she covers her head with it. I don't feel like I need to do that, but SHE does. She is not wrong. That is right for her. But it is not right for me. It is WRONG for her to tell me that covering my head is the right thing for me to do and it is WRONG for me to tell her that she doesn't need to do it. That is how BOTH of us interpret the Bible." ~Lynn Sexton
I want to apologize again for hurting anyone's feelings... that is never my intention.
I also pray that you allow the Holy Spirit to work in your life and help you with your own issues of right and wrong.
Most importantly, remember that being a Christian is not about a set of rules... it's about love,
As Paul says in
1 Corinthians 13:1-13,
it doesn't matter how much faith you have, how much money you give away, how much biblical knowledge you gain....
if all of that is not done for the purpose of loving others as Jesus loves us, those other things are devoid of value!
It's all about love.... Jesus is love.
I LOVE YOU!
~molly